Just about everyday I get an offer from online diet programs or supplements to become an affiliate on www.myfatspouse.com.
Getting with the right affiliate pays much better than text ads. But having an affiliate places this site in the position of being an advocate of certain product(s). None of the affiliate offers I have received are from companies that I agree that strongly with.
I know that unsavory text ads show up, but somehow becoming an affiliate with them feels like a stamp of approval for their products where as text ads don’t. Albeit text ads pay a paltry amount.
I certainly wouldn’t accept any kind of direct compensation from a fast food company or a processed food giant, like Pepsi!
Huh…Pepsi? What about Pepsi?
Ask Mopie of the www.bfdblog.com. She recently accepted an expense paid trip to Chicago for special bloggers, promoted by Quaker Oats.
You see a few years ago Quaker Oats was purchased and is owned by Pepsico. Not because Pepsi digs oats. Quaker Oats happened to manufacture Gatorade.
Coca Cola has spent billions over the years trying to compete with Gatorade with their product “Poweraid”, with pitiful success. Pepsi decided that an easier route would be just to buy Quaker Oats instead. I can’t imagine Pepsi would own an oatmeal company any other way.
I don’t have to tell you that Pepsico is a HUGE food company that has made a fortune off of High Fructose Corn Syrup sweetened water. Oh yes and through Frito Lay they make all you favorite Chips like Cheetos, Doritos, and Lays, just to name a few.
But the fun doesn’t end there. Pepsi founded and spun off YUM foods, which owns Kentucky Fried Chicken, Pizza Hut, Taco Bell, and Long John Silvers. They still have a relationship with these places. Try getting a Coke product at one of these joints.
So much for the big bad diet industry conspiracy. For the record the “diet industry” that FA complains about, reaped 35 billion dollars in sales in 2005. While Pepsico made nearly 33 billion, the same year.
Talk about a big fat hypocrite!


hey Chris, not sure if you were aware of this or not, by My Fat Spouse appears to be down today. Just thought I’d let you know. Take it easy!
Amy/Namaste
Just curious…is My Fat Spouse gone for good?
If so, that’s crazy!
Where’s my fat spouse?
I’m getting a teeny bit worried too, what’s up?
I miss mfs
I’d pay to have mfs back!
It’s not working for me either
I agree with Tuesday! Never mind the darn site though, please Chris let us know that you’re okay.
AWWWW, GOD!!!
I finally manage to get a new computer, the first place I go besides the fat-o-sphere is MFS and it’s not there?!?!
AND you’re not answering comments?
What happened?
Married2asweathog crashed your stuff?
Or do you have E-Machines?
Answer us, dammit!! We need you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wish I knew what happened here. Hard to believe it was MarriedtoaSweathog. He was having more fun than any of us. Hope MFS comes back soon. Does anybody else out there have a good place for us MFSer’s to hang out?
Guys, let’s remember that Chris has a life outside of MFS and this blog. He’s probably just been busy and hasn’t had time to check this stuff out yet. Give him some time
I don’t think M2 would do anything deliberately, but I gather that after he arrived there was always the risk that mfs would be labelled a hate-site and forced to close. It’s useless to speculate though, I just hope everything is well with Chris.
Namaste, should Unfatblog go down too I’m sure you don’t mind if we meet up on your blog occasionally (it’s excellent btw, though I haven’t got around to commenting yet).
What’s your blogs adress namaste?
I hope Chris is vacationing in the Virgin Islands or Aruba or something like that. I had no idea how addicted I was to MFS until it was gone.
Sure, you guys can chill on my blog, feel free to comment! Tuesday, just click on my username on here, it should take you right to my blog!
Yes, I hope Chris is ok, too. I’m not inclined to worry though.
And thanks Mary for the feedback! I have a friend who will guest blog from time to time writing about issues regarding all sorts of wacky, human behavior. I’m excited for her contributions whenever they may come.
The username isn’t working, Namaste.
http://namastelove.wordpress.com
Swell! I’m thinking of setting up a MFS refugee camp. I hope I won’t have to live like a refugee too much longer.
Let us know what you end up establishing, Tuesday! Yeah, I definitely hope that all is well for Chris and that he gets back to us soon!
Hey, good idea Tuesday!
What Happened to fat spouse froum?
I am screwing with these people now that MFS is off line. I need MFS to talk me down.
WLS Patients are very much like fat acceptance types. Lots of phony moral outrage and denial.
Like the Kate Hardings they are crazy bitches. The react really easily and hysterically. Fat people have no self control.
Bigger fatter Blog is gettin gooder and gooder.
We need some trolls.
Tuesday, if you see this will you leave a comment somewhere on my blog (w/ your email) so I can email you? (I don’t want us to post our emails publicly on here).
Has anyone heard from Chris yet on any of the other forums?
Several days ago, I live chatted with a rep from Bluehost. All the Blue host rep was able to tell me was the site had been Suspended (duh), and that the Site Administrator (I assume, Chris) needed to contact them-Bluehost. I tried to extract more info, but got nothing. At last I stated that I hoped nothing really bad had happened, as in he was dead or worse(sorry guys, it’s an occupational hazard that usually results in cynicism.) To which the rep replied that he could not release any further information.
There could be any number of possibilities as to what happened to myfatspouse.com. Someone who is more familiar with and/or has had more experience with the site might be able to speculate further. So for the time being I will keep my opinions to myself.
It looks like the domain is going to expire super soon…
I tried linking to the who is page…but I don’t think I can link to anything…oh well.
It is so weird that My Fat Spouse is suddenly gone.
Not everything that falls apart gets put back together again, but somehow and someway MFS will.
I’m actually quite worried about Chris (sorry, but that’s the truth). I guess Tuesday has been around longest, and I joined a little over a year ago. During this time mfs has crashed several times, but was always up again within a day at most. It doesn’t seem like Chris to me to just disappear without a word – although I can certainly understand if he’s got tired of the whole thing (I gather it cost him some money too to keep it going as well).
I sure wish Chris would let us know that he’s okay – and if he’s decided to quit we’d all just have to accept it.
It would be great if someone had the initiative to put up a new mfs if the old one isn’t coming back.
And that’s the trouble with the internet, no last names to go by most of the time, so no way to know if a person had something bad happen to them, or if they just said, “screw it” and stopped working on it. I am with you Mary, I just want to know that he’s doing okay. So Chris, if you’re seeing this, could you let us know?
Mojo, I think Chris used to post on bodybuilding.com as “fatsuperman”. He has one other site that I know of, “Forgottenmuscle” (it’s about the history of bodybuilding, nothing even remotely controversial or offensive), but it has recently been “suspended” as well.
or Chris decided he was spending too much of hi life on line. I’ve had to pull back and reorganize my own time more than once…MFS really helped me and so many people think through the weight, sex and marriage issues in my life. It hasn’t even been gone a month and I’m wondering if I could come up with something like it to fill the void. How does My Bigger Half sound? A little less direct. Any ideas for a name for the MFS refugee site. I’m not usually ambitious, but I might just take the plunge and see if I can’t provide some poor sap out there the space to vent and support MFS provided me. Send ideas to nokohahamini@yahoo.com
I miss the site too, and I hope Chris is alright. Like Mary45 said, the few times it has crashed or been suspended, he had it back up in pretty quick order. It’s been down almost two weeks now…
Looks like his domain is set to expire in April. It’s registered with Godaddy and his website is hosted by bluehost. I know Chris put a lot of energy into his website but i wouldn’t think it would cost that much to maintain it in the event he lost his job due to the recession. Of course it’s all just speculation. I hope Chris is ok…i really miss his website.
Btw, if Chris had wanted to just suddenly drop mfs and forget all abut it, then why would he leave Unfatblog up and open for our speculations and lamentations? It doesn’t make any sense to me.
I know…very weird. I’ve been checking every day to see if the website is up. By nature, I tend to always fear the worst……comes from my childhood when my mom would say she was going to the grocery store and then would stay gone for 6 hours (neglecting to tell me she was also going to a gazillion other places). And being a fan of the horror genre doesn’t help. So it would nice to know that Chris is ok.
His website was really very unique. There really isn’t anything out there quite like it. And despite some of the criticism, his website was not a ‘hate’ website. It was just a place some of us could go and vent.
And because there really isn’t anything else out there like MFS I thought I’d use what little time and web skills I have to try and start recreating or resurrecting MFS. I think MFS actually started as a Yahoo group. In any case I found a free forum host and set up a nice MFS refugee forum and I’d like to invite anybody and everybody to come on over, repost anything you might have squandered away on your computer from MFS and maybe see if we can get anything rolling. I was thinking of using this more as just a way of putting MFS in suspended animation, but if need be it could be the start of a full scale resurrection. Anybody wanna come along? E-mail me at myfatspouse@gmail.com. If Chris should get things up and running again, I promise I won’t use the name and will cease and desist, etc.
You have to give up an e-mail and create a nabble account to post on the Refugee Forum. Apologies, takes 30 seconds.
UGHHH!!!
This is lame!!!
I’m bored!!
Where the eff is Chris?!??!!?
I couldn’t agree more. I’m working on a resurrection, with any luck I’ll have it up and running in a couple weeks. I’m just starting to appreciate Chris’s efforts all the more. I’ll keep you posted. If you have any old content you may have preserved from MFS click on my name above and slap it on this nabble blog thing. I’d like to put as much old MFS content as possible on the new MFS in the works.
Oh my God, I can’t believe it took me this long to find something that was related to MFS. What the hell happened?
Bring your bellows to the smoldering embers of MFS at http://myfatspouse.bravehost.com/
I MISS My Fat Spouse!!! I was really addicted. Only started posting a few months ago. But have been reading it for ages. I really miss it
Hey SexCrunch!
This might look familiar to you…
http://n2.nabble.com/The-My-Fat-Spouse-Forum-f2331443.html
Chris! What the he’ll happened to you?
I wish you’d at least log in and let us know you’re doing ok, Chris…we worry.
Check out myfatspouse.org!